Here is a thought I had while I was driving Casey and Dalton from Nashville to Winchester on Friday: I have Grand-Mommy brain! Which is to say, I have plenty of energy to think about all things Casey and Dalton, but little energy to blog about banjos. So, I decided that in lieu of blogging about banjos for a while I’d just blog. About whatever.
So here is my first “whatever” blog! Hope you can hang in with me until I get focused, once again, on banjos! But I was thinking that perhaps this experience may also reflect what often goes on in your lives: too much going on to devote much time to playing banjo. (Or whatever instrument you are learning.) What do you do? You just hang in the best you can, fill your lives with music as much as possible, and wait for the pendulum to swing back around. Music is such a part of my life that I can never be completely separated from it or without it.
Having said that, I’ll tell you what I’ve been doing lately. On Wednesday morning (Dec. 7) I flew to Nashville to join Casey and Red who were in the mad and last throes of packing up her house for the move to Winchester. Red had driven the U-Haul to her house [Editor's note: actually I picked up the U-Haul while Red held the sleeping baby at home!] and when I arrived movers were already loading the 26-foot truck. I would have been there slightly sooner but son Chris and I had made a Starbucks detour on the way from the airport for some mother-son bonding, two breakfast sandwiches, and two tall Americanos with cream! Wednesday night Red delivered the truck to the home of Ned Lubrecki (Nedski to his friends) who was driving it to Winchester on Friday. Red and I spent Wednesday night with Red’s uncle John Hedgecoth and his wife Lynn, sleeping in a soft bed while Casey hunkered down, bluegrass style, on a pallet on the floor of her house. She wanted to spend the last night in her home of the last nine years. (Dalton was nestled all snug in his Pack n Play.)
Thursday morning, as Casey and Dalton and I hit the road for our two-day trip to Winchester, I was surprised to find myself crying as we pulled out of Casey’s driveway. That had been such a good house for her, and she had put so much love and work into it. Casey asked me if I would like Dalton’s pacifier! Red was driving separately and taking just one day. We learned during our long journey home over Thanksgiving that Dalton can make it just about five hours before melting down completely and becoming inconsolable despite Casey’s best efforts—and much John Hartford music!
Our stopping places along the road are now based on which eating places have a baby changing station in the bathroom! Some Starbucks do, some don’t. Some Burger Kings do, some don’t. Cracker Barrel does. McDonald’s is pretty good.
We spent Thursday night at our half-way point, Bristol. Casey and I woofed down a pizza in our motel room, and I tried to stay awake long enough to watch the Steelers play the Browns on Thursday night football. I didn’t make it through the first quarter!
Friday morning Dalton was up bright and early at 6 a.m. So, naturally we were too! Having chosen Exit 7 on I 81 based on the presence of a Starbucks, we got our breakfast there (to go) and geared up for the last 300 miles. We rolled into Winchester sometime around 1 p.m. The rest of that day is a blur. Oh yeah! I made spaghetti! From scratch, with grass-fed local beef! Nedski arrived with the U-Haul sometime around 8 p.m. Since he had a gig in Chattanooga the next afternoon (!) he didn’t hang around. Red drove him to the Baltimore airport. I was out square dancing! Which keeps me sane!
Okay, gotta wind this up. Casey just came downstairs with Dalton and said she would feed him and we would head over to HER HOUSE to continue with the unpacking. Although she has not yet closed on her house (that’s Monday) the sellers were kind enough to let her unload all her stuff there Saturday. Which is what we did all day. I bailed at 4 p.m. so I could get a nap and restore my energy for, guess what? Square dancing!!
Which brings us around to today, Sunday. And more unpacking. I told Casey I’d make us some sandwiches for our lunch, so I’d better get to it. There is a possibility of some old-time picking tonight in Paw Paw with Sam and Joe Hermann and David McLaughlin. If I go, I’ll be hacking away at the fiddle.
If you’re looking for a great (although non-bluegrass) holiday CD, I’m really enjoying the new Carole King offering. Check it out. It starts off with “There As A Few Of My Favorite Things.” And Tony Trischka’s holiday CD from a few years back is (And Glory Shone Around is perhaps the title) is fabulous. And Laurie Lewis’s Winter Solstice. (Don’t hold me to the title!) And of course, The Roaches We Three Kings. (Also non-bluegrass but wonderful with great harmony.)
Okay, time to go be a Grandmother!!! “I have sandwiches to fix and miles to go before I…..” Okay that didn’t work! The best I can come up with (after running through the alphabet) is “miles to go before I picks” which is ungrammatical. This is better: “She has sandwiches to fix, and miles to go before she picks!” I like it!





